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Tuesday, 29 March 2011
Daughters, Are You Stuck in a Rut ?
How? : ~
Divide up a circle to see what takes up most of your life.
Draw another to show what you want it to be like.
Then pick out the 3 most important things ~ and try to make the changes.
Don't worry about the smaller things, they'll somehow slot into your new plan.
Good Luck.
Jill
Preparation ...
I know it's early to think about this ... but here's another pair of wellies for the festival season :~
Hunter Original Gloss.
Okay so they're £72 but they're smart ...
http://www.hunter-boot.com/
Jill
Monday, 28 March 2011
Prioritise ... Prioritise ... Prioritise ...
Friday, 25 March 2011
A Slip for £78,000
I was somewhat procrastinating ... checking out an auction house in the Lake District to see if my Doulton Bunnykins had been listed instead of writing my inttended blog ~ the Bedroom Cleaning Frenzy. I didn't really want to remind you about the Spring Cleaning ~ and luckily, this little topic caught my eye ...
Prices for a Slip of a Princess ...
The see-through dress that apparently first attracted Prince William to Kate Middleton was sold for £78,000 at an auction. Those hoping to bag their own Prince Charming - or just wanting a piece of fashion history - bid frantically for the slip at Kerry Taylor’s auction house in central London, according to the Daily Mail.
The dress was eventually bought, for £65,000 with a buyer's premium on top, by a mystery bidder in his mid 30’s who said the purchase was on behalf of an individual named 'Nick from Jersey'.
Kate had worn the now infamous dress [originally intended to be a skirt worn over a slip] at a 2002 charity fashion show while at St Andrew's University. Being auctioned from an Antique, Vintage Specialist and Textile House, the slip has attracted attention from across the world.
Before the bidding started auctioneer Kerry Taylor, who had valued the dress at £8,000 - £10,000, described it as the slip that 'caught a prince's eye and then his heart.'
The black and turquoise knitted silk tube, made by Charlotte Todd, a University fashion graduate became the highlight of the auction as Kate-mania swept through ahead of the royal wedding. Apparently Charlotte was going to keep the slip forever. Wonder what changed her mind? At least she’s being sensible with her new-found wealth - she’s going to use the money for a deposit on her first house.
An all round Ahhh. :) :)
Jill
Wednesday, 23 March 2011
Mother's Day Approaching ...
Often the best way to learn is by watching. Until I make my own videos ... try this one ... from baking to decorating these yummy little 'Spring Blossom' cup cakes, all you need to know. It's simpler than you think.
Baking can also be a place to switch off from concentrating on studies, work or difficult situations ... Treat yourself to some time off and someone else to your new-found culinary art.
www.goodtoknow.co.uk/recipes/517055/spring-blossom-cupcakes
Jill
Chic Retreats ... Why not ?
The Elephant at Pangbourne is a small luxury hotel in the riverside village of Pangbourne, Berkshire. Enjoy local ales and a pub lunch in the bar, a romantic dinner in the restaurant or simply relax in the spacious rooms and lounge with their quirky colonial styling and luxurious finishings. With the River Thames nearby and close to the bustling city of Reading, guests have much to explore, although the lure of the cosy bar and stylish rooms may prove too much to leave.
Jill
Something Softer ...
Bishopstrow House and Spa is one of the finest luxury hotels in Wiltshire and possibly one of the best luxury hotels in the UK. Boasting an indoor and an outdoor pool (both heated), the stress-busting Halcyon Spa and stunning new Mulberry restaurant this country house hotel is a dream for all seasons. Following the recent refurbishment of many of the rooms, the interiors have been decorated to the highest standard with stunning designer wallpapers, beautiful antiques and luxurious fabrics. Welcoming touches include fresh flowers and fruit in all of the rooms on arrival.
Contact Lulu at www.chicretreats.com
Jill
Chic Retreats ... Or Crazy ?
Contact www.thecrazybeargroup.com
Jill
Tuesday, 22 March 2011
Step By Step ... Something else you probably won't like ...
Things you will need:
Cloths / Old towels torn up into smaller pieces / Scourers - sponge with a rough green bit on one side /Brush / Dustpan /Bin bags /Mop / Rubber gloves /Old clothes.
Cleaning Materials:
Hot water /Cif / or Jiff / Cream cleaner - the gritty one / Surface cleaner / Bleach /Cooker cleaning product.
Pre - THE CLEANING OPERATION ... Tidy Up Time ...
Big the Tidy Up ... into a real Clear Out. Not much point cleaning around rubbish - it's time-wasting. You could be doing other things like ... your nails ... going to the pub ... the races ... the cinema ... on a date ... speed dating ... possibly your essay; some revision; research? Less is more ~ so why keep all that cr ... stuff?
Let's take it easy ...
Unroll 3 bin-bags.
Well Done. That's the rubbish moved ... now for THE CLEANING ...
Kitchen
Move clutter from worktops and shelves.
Clean cooker top with Cif and scourer. Wipe clean with HOTLIQ.
Wipe inside cupboard and fridge shelves, surfaces, jars and lids with HOTLIQ
Remove cutlery from tray and wipe out with HOTLIQ. Sort cutlery into compartments.
Wash down all cupboard fronts and surfaces. [Special attention to the handles and under surface edges]
Soak cloths in bleach [Be careful you don't damage your clothes].
Phew, I'm exhausted after just one room. Think I'll clean the others tomorrow:
Lounge )
Bathroom ) all coming up sooooon - ust giving you time to get dusters and polish
Bedroom )
Jill
Tea Time ~ Mum Time ...
Monday, 21 March 2011
Coming Up ...
Fixing broken stuff ...
Decorate? ... Decorate? Why not?
Feng Shui and Ebay .........................
Sunday, 20 March 2011
Do you want Fresh Looking Skin for free ? ... of course you do ...
Obviously, the diet is specifically designed for her but after reading the schedule, I realised what we already know but might find difficult to stick to ~ Eat Healthily [obv]: No bread, biscuits, muffins, take-aways with chips [or any chips for that matter]. 'Boring' - I can hear you shout out loud ... I'm not suggesting you go on a full-blown diet - just try a few of the suggestions and see for yourself ...
Cut down on processed foods / carbs / takeaways /alcohol ~
Don't get sulky, I only said cut down ...The point is to develop sustainable healthy habits for life ... not to beat yourself up trying to achieve endless diet goals ... Try the tips below:
Drink water with lemon in the morning - helps rejuvenate your skin
Make porridge oats for breakfast - add fresh fruit and maple syrup instead of sugar
Eat a larger meal at lunch-time - you won't feel as hungry at tea/supper time
Eat a lighter meal at tea/supper time.
Don't eat after 8pm [Does this help? See http://www.tryingfitness.com/]
Drink plenty of freshly squeezed vegetable and fruit juices.
Grated ginger and peppermint tea appear on the schedule - both good for digestion.
Probiotics - this good bacteria can be bought in a concentrated capsule form.
Drink plenty of water.
Excercise to get the blood flow zooming round.
Let me know how you get on ~ or if you have any tips to share.
Jill
Recycling ...
Jill
Saturday, 19 March 2011
Comic Relief ...
£10 [plus standard network charge] will go directly to aid people in Africa and UK.
Friday, 18 March 2011
The Naughty Girl's Guide to Life ...
THE STYLE MANTRA:
'Grant me the serenity to never wear pop socks - even if they are under boots and people cannot see them.
Courage to realise that I do have cellilite and should dress accordingly.
And the wisdom never to buy anything that is a size too small, even it is in the sale, and I really am going to start that new diet soon.'
Thanks, Ladies.
Jill
Thursday, 17 March 2011
Julia Child
'Whenever you see food beautifully arranged on a plate, you know somebone's fingers have been all over it.'
Julia Child
Sunday, 13 March 2011
Vintage Finds ...
Whilst we're at it, check out your mother's handbag store ... There'll probably be a few evening bags tucked away that could be given a new life ...
If you mum's handbag store has been cleared regularly, try www.etsy.com/ for vintage finds like this Chrysanthemum print Purse.
Jill
Pure Transformation Night Treatment :~
It's no mystery that minerals are essential for living cells. Mineral-rich soil can turn a fertile seed into nutritious fruits. Yes yes, we know that. So its easy to understand that Bare Escentuals products have been extracted from mineral-abundant soil containing a comprehensive blend of beneficial macro and micro minerals that exist in nature.
Every formula in bareMinerals skincare range is powered by 100% Rare Minerals Active Soil Complex, promising faster cell turnover, visibly smaller pores, increased luminsoity and softer looking skin.
How to use Pure Transformation Night Treatment [Clear or Tinted]:
Cleanse and moisturise your face.
Dip brush into product. Swirl brush in lid. Tap off excess. Buff your face.
It's a bit like going to bed with make-up on ~ and apparently, waking up looking as if you've still got your make-up on ... So, if you've got a new fella, that can't be a bad place to be, can it?
I'll be trying out the product under covers tonight ~ real people results coming to you in a couple of days ...
For further product or usage information: http://www.bareescentuals.co.uk/
JillDo you really want a flat tummy ... ?
Simple ~ Leave these out of your daily intake ...
* Dairy Foods [ie Cream]
* Fizzy drinks [Any]
* Yeasty foods [ie Bread and Beer]
* Sugary foods [Anything with sugar on especially]
* Starch and Protein eaten together [ie Steak Sandwich]
* Junk food of any kind
* Salt [Salt increases water retention]
[Based on Girly Handbook: Vermillion Books]
So that's basically everything but grilled fish and chicken salad ... and water
Jill
Saturday, 12 March 2011
Dear [Darling], Dear [Expensive] or Dior ...
Friday, 11 March 2011
Thursday, 10 March 2011
Tuesday, 8 March 2011
Invite to Product Launch ... Yippee I'm sooo excited ...
See you all on Friday and I'll update you with all the new products etc.
Sunday, 6 March 2011
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time
The concept sprang from The Book Industry Conference in 2009. Jaimie Byng of Canongate books is said to have started the idea which was later steered by a large committee including Random House, Penguin, Harper-Collins, Faber and Faber, Clays ... et al. So it's no surprise then, that giving out Free books might have meant cheap advertising. I'm not wanting to be sour about the promotion, clearly the book suppliers want to create awareness, especially in this techno-e-reader era but I found that the interest shown when giving out the books was quite amazing. The giving and receiving process somehow seemed to make people feel special. When I offered the FREE book to one lady, she asked, 'How much is it?' not believing something was actually for free. Some people seemed to mist over at the sight of a book. I could almost see their thoughts formulating ... a book? to read? Then a smile ... and once they'd accepted it, I could tell that reading one might be a pleasant experience.
World Book Day and Night encouraged a lot of interest, from large gathering for readings in Trafalgar Square, author readings and promotions in libraries to small reading groups; people getting together creating community spirit. And there's nothing wrong with that, is there?
I have 10 books left: The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time by Mark Haddon. If you would like a copy, just email me at gmhesketh@yahoo.co.uk and I will post it to you. [FREE!]
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time is about an autistic boy who finds a neighbour's murdered dog in the garden and investigates the mystery. Viewing everyday events and emotions from the character's perspective, there is much to learn from Mark Haddon's novel. Humbling and enlightening, a delightful read.
Jill
Urgent Reminder ... Have You Thought about Buying Your Festival Tickets Yet?
Thursday, 3 March 2011
Check List for Daughters and Sons : ~
You'll meet new people.
You could learn a new skill.
You could gain experience in your chosen field.
You'll learn to take direction other than from a teacher or parent.
You might be able to use your own initiative and see how that feels for size.
You will earn yourself some wages. [Unless you do voluntary work - which is totally, totally, commendable]
Earning your own money will make you feel more independant.
You can add your work or voluntary deeds to update your CV.
I know I sound like your mum ... but you might not have been paying attention to your mum ...
* Star Tip - try to physically get yourself to your summer job - without relying on your parents to take you there / collect you - think of it as a challenge.
* Star Tip - Don't ask your parents to phone in sick for you - infact - don't phone in sick - just get up and go to your summer job.
Hey, You might even enjoy it.
You'll take some pressure off your parents and they'll like you again [only joking - about the liking bit - obviously they like you, they even love you - but will probably love you even more - if you ... get a summer job.]
So go on, get planning, apply early for your summer job ... now ... pleeeasse !
Try the local papers, internet, write a CV [paste your photo on it] and drop it off at shops, cafes, play centres, garden centres, hotels, food suppliers, telephone sales, newspapers, factories ... just about anywhere ... you never know who you'll meet and what might change your career ...
Jill
Day 4 Jill Hesketh's Diet Plan :~
1 Weetabix. Nano amount of sugar. Semi-skimmed milk.
Half banana
1 Beaker Nescafe.
1 glass water
Sounds pretty normal ?
Oops and a couple of Jaffa cakes or 4
Massive improvement on the food intake but feeling a bit moody. [Can't even be bothered with the over-exaggerated Geordie accent today (which I love btw, exaggerated or not)]. Considering a serious diet plan now. Super-foods. And maybe some light exercise ... well, a walk from the car to the health food shop will have to suffice for now - I'm supposed to be finishing THAT novel.
I did wonder why I've been listing my diet, after all it isn't a good example for all you young ladies out there ... then I thought - actually, it is. Because if you carry on like I've been doing, you'll end up overweight with low energy levels. When I get stressed, I eat silly combinations of heafty carbohydrates. I've been doing this since I was quite young. And I don't want you to do it. So, if you recognise any similarities, get OUT of the HABIT now. As fast as you can. Keep focused. Eat your 5-a-day or as near as poss. Cut down bread intake [especially white], pasta and rice. Drink lots of water. And of course, Eccles cakes, Cadbury's Nibbles, Jaffa Cakes and the likes are TREATS, not STAPLE DIET.
Check out the Peter Serafinowicz's Butterfield Diet Plan for a hearty laugh out loud: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1NjTWvl8x-U
Jill
Wellington Boot History :~
We all seem to have a vague knowledge that they were named after a Duke, Wellington of course; Arthur Wellesley, 1st Duke of Wellington actually. But he didn’t actually invent the Wellington Boot, he had the 18th Century Hessian boot re-designed it to suit his needs, ordering his shoemaker to make it fit closely around the leg and rise only to mid-calf. The result was a leather boot tough and resilient enough to wear in battle but nice and comfy for the evening. [hope he wiped them over first] Wellesley somehow made the boot popular and fashionable among the British aristocracy in the early 19th century and in his honour the boots were named
Wellingtons and the name remained the same until today.
In 1852 Hiram Hutchinson bought the patent to manufacture footwear from the vulcanization process of natural rubber and Wellington boots became a great success, especially amongst farmers, who were used to wearing wooden clogs. In World War 1 and 2, Wellington Boots were worn by soldiers in flooded trenches and by the end of the war, everybody was wearing them.
[Some information collected from www.wellingtonboots.org.uk Thank-you]
Jill
Marilyn Monroe Spats ...
How about these for wellington boots?
Clearly not tall enough for going into battle, farming or Glastonbury, but sweet anyway ...
£37.99 from http://www.thewellyshop.com/
Wednesday, 2 March 2011
Day Three ... The Jill Hesketh's Diet Plan ...
Breakfast:
Not telling.
Plus a glass of water to ease the guilt.
Lunch: Better effort ...
Banana
2 tangerines
Glass of water
Mid-afternoon Snack: Lost it again ...
4 McVities Jaffa Cakes [word on the street is that Jaffa Cakes are generally lower in calories and fat content than my/our other favourites - aka Plain Chocolate Digestives]
Large beaker Nescafe
Glass Water
Dinner:
Minced beef with steamed vegetables and nano amount of grated cheese on the top for aesthetic effect.
Tiny spoonful vanilla ice-cream
NO WINE !
Glass water
So - a slight improvement at least. Yes pets, I know, [still using over-exaggerated Geordie accent for some random reason], I should eat the larger meal at lunch time and a smaller meal in the evening.
Here's to tomorrow's effort ... mabe Oats with Banana, Apple and Maple Syrup ...
Jill
Tuesday, 1 March 2011
Bare faces ...
Any product that can be applied sooo quickly and make such a difference has got to be worth trying ... Like I said before, all you do is: Swirl, Tap, Buff and off you go ...
Hey Daughters / Sons and anyone else who falls into that bracket ...
http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=10150105668223063
Great Fun to watch ... Breath of fresh air ... eeek Just glad it's not my son or daughter.
PS ... let me know what is 'cool' for mums to say ...
Jill
The Christmas Annual ...
So I did.
You've heard plenty of those interviews where musicians say something like, 'Oh yest THAT song, yeah, it took me half an hour when I was staying with friends in the Caribbean one Spring' ... well luckily for me, that's what happened last night [not that I was in the Caribbean, although very much would like to be]. I drew out a brief structure consisting of a page full of squares and considered this my story board. Wow. Such an achievement. And all my ideas just seemed to fall from a memory bank somewhere in my head, onto the page. Yes, my head ached, it still does but it felt like a feng shui overdose. Once the path was clear, the 'stuff' just came tumbling out. Those ideas must have been layering themselves for more than two years. Adapted activities from Creative Writing workshops I ran a few years ago, materialised themselves in a new format on the page; memories of picuture books I had researched ready for the process seemed to sketch themselves whilst I watched, even the flow chart flowed. What a relief.
Thank-you Fairy Godmother whoever you are.
Now ALL I need is an artist, illustrator, agent and publisher.
Maybe if I rub my pocket and count to three, one will appear out of thin air.
Gillian
Weddington Boots ...
I know I should have saved these for the Finale of the Wellington Boot Festival-Muddy-Field-Walk ~ but I couldn't resist showing them to you ...
How sexy would they be under a silk, balconette wedding gown with an over-sized rose on the hip ?
£39.99 from www.thewellyshop.com
Jill
Day 2 on the Jill Hesketh Diet Plan ...
Breakfast:
2 x rounds of white bread, toasted with lashings of butter.
Large beaker of Nescafe with lots of milk.
Quarter packet Cadbury's nibbles (found them !)
Beaker of water due to guilt.
Result: Headache and lethargy !
In my defence, I've been writing all week-end ~ staying up late, emailing and creating packages of examples for publishers and agents [the pressure of which is enough to cause a head-ache in itself] ~ and designing the Daughters-in-Distress Christmas Annual ~ yes that's correct ... although desigining the Daughters-in-Distress Christmas Annual should have been done before contacting an Agent / Publisher ... hey ho ...
Jill